"Beyond the Shiny Object" offers a comprehensive framework for addressing the complex impacts of trauma on male survivors of sexual abuse. The first section delves into theoretical models, integrating trauma theory, attachment theory, and gender theory through the lens of sexual development. This foundation provides therapists with a deep understanding of how trauma disrupts identity, relationships, and self-worth. The second section focuses on the critical relationship between the survivor and their therapist or loved ones. It emphasizes the importance of fostering curiosity to navigate shame and rebuild trust. By strengthening this connection, survivors can expand their capacity for self-reflection and healing. This book equips professionals with practical tools and insights to support survivors in moving beyond shame toward resilience and deeper relationships.