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Hardcover Book Details
  • 07/2024
  • 9781035825349
  • 322 pages
  • $35.95
Paperback Book Details
  • 07/2024
  • 9781035825332
  • 322 pages
  • $20.95
J. J. Laakso
Author
Familiar Reflections
J. J. Laakso, author
In my debuting book, I awake to a post-divorce time filled with uncertainty of who and where I am and what I desire. How I have lived my life and whether I desire to continue it. Little by little, I perceive it, the world I have lived in and the fear I have always felt yet never truly understood. Learning to understand my life, I detail realizations I consider vital and practices that helped me build more sustainable happiness together with those I share my life with. For me, this journey meant categorizing aspects of my life, conceptualizing them as carefully as I can; faith in myself and the world around me; and courage to be open about what I desire to believe in all of us. Our capability to learn to love. Our capability to learn to live wisely and skillfully.
Reviews
Laakso’s philosophical debut reflects on the complexity of being a living, breathing being with complex emotions, struggling to find happiness in a world that can be dark and uncertain. “Realising our mortality commonly symbolises a desire to live our life to the fullest,” he writes, “and remembering it often symbolizes regret over not having done so. We never will. That doesn’t mean we shouldn’t try.” Through personal anecdotes of his own struggles—divorce, falling in love, profound grief—and select Buddhist teachings, Laakso inspires readers to connect with the world around them in a deeply intimate way that is often missing from contemporary life.

Years-long studies of Dharma and philosophy clearly shape Laakso’s writing, which takes the form of a gently meandering study on suffering, meaning, and passion. He firmly believes in the communal work humankind must do to achieve happiness, and draws from his home country, Finland, to sift the ideas behind social democracy, reminding readers that “what we collectively believe in has never been unanimous”—but the end goal must be peace, “without the need for violent displays of power.”

Laakso's musings and reflective thoughts will prompt readers to turn within and examine their own fears—of the unknown, the past, and “of ourselves”—while intentionally finding and expressing love. Though asides into his own developed equations for “individual sustainable happiness” distract from the book’s broader themes, his writing is passionate, touching on topics that range from justice to social responsibility, and he urges readers to seek wisdom, lavishly bestow forgiveness, and nurture compassion. The future will be unpredictable, he asserts, but hope, not fear, is the antidote—“together [we] must do all we can to alleviate and dispel [fear] with courage to create hope” he advises. These tranquil introspections on our shared experiences are a soothing reminder of “how rare and fortunate it is to have been born human.”

Takeaway: Philosophical contemplations on the keys to finding happiness.

Comparable Titles: Charles P. Nemeth's Finding Happiness in a Complex World, Shawn Achor's The Happiness Advantage.

Production grades
Cover: B+
Design and typography: A-
Illustrations: N/A
Editing: B+
Marketing copy: A

Formats
Hardcover Book Details
  • 07/2024
  • 9781035825349
  • 322 pages
  • $35.95
Paperback Book Details
  • 07/2024
  • 9781035825332
  • 322 pages
  • $20.95
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